I came across this interesting article today and I thought it was especially pertinent given what has been going on in the news lately.
Obviously the most important thing men can do is respect boundaries and moderate the way they use language so as not to weaponize it. It is important to note however that the outrages that we have witnessed in the Weinstein case and others most recently is simply the symptom of a rotten culture that treats womyn with condescension at best and like objects or slaves to be owned and controlled at worst.
This permeates Western culture, from the way womyn are portrayed in popular media to the way rape is a popular topic of jokes amongst men. This all contributes to the normalization of violence against womyn, LGBT and non-binary people in society. As long as we allow it to continue, we will see more Harvey Weinsteins and we will continue to witness men engaging in predatory behaviour.