Yes, my friends, it's come to this:
Spotty only wishes that he'd had this kind of advice available on tap before he settled for Mrs. Spotty.....If they actually do get a woman to start talking to them, or even showing the slightest interest in them, most guys have so few romantic options, that they feel the need to latch on to her like she is the last lifeboat on the Titanic.
Besides putting pressure on themselves, they are putting tremendous pressure on the woman as well. No woman wants a guy hanging all over her for dear life. And no matter how much she may have liked you at first, if you start acting all needy and clingy, she’s going to pull away from you in record time.
So how does this life or death mindset differ from the mindset of a “player” when he meets a woman.
First of all, because he has plenty of options, the player doesn’t get too excited or worked up when he meets a new girl. She is just one in a string of hot women he is connecting with on a regular basis....
Alas, the raven haired beauty of Spotty's dreams moved on, thanks to Spotty's indecision, and is now involved with an awful berk, while Spotty is stuck with the wagon-in-chief.
Bill Tormey is to be thanked. Providing dating advice should be a core duty of a public representative. Perhaps Bill will provide a speed dating clinic in his office, as a follow up.
Spotty urges all you youngsters to listen to Cllr. Bill. The man has forgotten more about women than most of you will learn in a lifetime.