The danger in reporting one suicide is that it is used as a template for another person to kill themselves or triggers something in their mind that sees them go over the edge. The tragedy of Irelands lost children has been swept under the carpet for a long time and because of that, we don't know the full extent of it's scale. There are two choices, keep things underground, give those at the front line the resources to work with those suffering and reach out to every single house's doorstep to ensure that while suicide is kept out of regular discussion, suicidal people are given treatment before things get out of hand. The other option is leadership from mental health professionals with the backing of politicians, to have a conversation with the nation about mental health and suicide prevention. To describe a hopeful future that would reach those without hope and to take away the barriers that stop people from making the steps to get help and doing what they need to do.
Maybe it will be a combination of the two that is most practical for right now. But when it comes to tragic circumstances it is hard to keep it swept under the carpet or have a conversation when the suffering of communities is so intense. The loss of loved ones in suicides has to be one of the hardest things to think about never mind have a conversation about. It's in the nature of things that specifics are what people can relate to, can gain understanding from and sympathise with. But it can be those specifics that open up the possiblity of copying. Perhaps what is needed now with the conversation is to begin with the obvious roots, like depression and other mental health difficulties, alcohol or drug abuse and then target vulnerable sectors of society. A society that doesn't understand the basics is hardly going to react well to the intense complexity that can accompany suicidal people and suicide. The willingness to invest in education and training of people has not been good enough, however things can change but only if there is leadership.
The last thing anyone wants is to see another suicide linked to the attempt to open up people's awareness of the existance of suicide in our society. It's imperative to keep the dangers in mind, the minefield of how people could perceive things. But that's not the whole story. The message that if you are suicidal you can seek help, it is there, is critical. You don't need to go to sleep tonight without the backing of your community, the health services will be there, the phone lines with someone to talk to are there, that times have changed and you do not have to be ashamed to seek help. And to others that live in the community that it is every persons responsiblity to pick up the phone or go visit the vulnerable person, or even just listen to the problems of your family and friends, a problem shared early can save suffereing down the line and learning now about how bad things can be could help you through it if things ever were to deteriorate.
In strategic terms, the resources to modernise Mental health in ireland have to be directed or we pay a huge collective price, even if we aren't aware of the full extent of that price. Other countries can make a difference so can we.



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