Time for Biological father to pay the bill

[dancesatnight]

my ex decided after a talk we had to stop taking her pill and is now very pregant im trapped

what can i do i told her i didnt want kids she already has one by an other father and she told me he doesnt pay a penny ive lost my job and im on the job seekers allowance and money is very tight as it is

i dont mean to sound like a cold hearted ************************* but i told her i didnt want to have kids and she turned in to a complete nut case

Do i have to see the child, pay maintance or have any thing to do with them? i was planning on moving to canda or england in search of work

i am in a new relationship and things are going great for once in my life i know it sounds really selfish but i honest dont want to be a part of her life and because of what she has done i deeply rescent her the last time we talked i told her i didnt want to have any more contact but she keeps txting me and im worried she will arrive at my door well my perents door or call the house i had to move home because i lost my job and dont want to put them though all of this mess

if any more has any advise please tell me im at my withs end

[Foghorn]

my ex decided after a talk we had to stop taking her pill and is now very pregant im trapped

what can i do i told her i didnt want kids she already has one by an other father and she told me he doesnt pay a penny ive lost my job and im on the job seekers allowance and money is very tight as it is

i dont mean to sound like a cold hearted ************************* but i told her i didnt want to have kids and she turned in to a complete nut case

Do i have to see the child, pay maintance or have any thing to do with them? i was planning on moving to canda or england in search of work

i am in a new relationship and things are going great for once in my life i know it sounds really selfish but i honest dont want to be a part of her life and because of what she has done i deeply rescent her the last time we talked i told her i didnt want to have any more contact but she keeps txting me and im worried she will arrive at my door well my perents door or call the house i had to move home because i lost my job and dont want to put them though all of this mess

if any more has any advise please tell me im at my withs end

I'm not going to judge anything and I'll tell you only what I know.

You don't have to see the children - you might consider the future and what that holds in taking such an action. Whatever little you have the child will have less.

Your ex can probably have you pay maintenance. I don't know what happens if you leave the country though. Normally the issue of maintenance is dealt with through the courts.