
Originally Posted by
gatsbygirl20
Believe me, Potatoeman, the guys had it better, if only marginally.
I attempt to quote Germaine Greer: "Throughout history, woman has done the work, and man the directing---even if the only thing being directed was a donkey"
My father was a kind, intelligent, hard-working man, don't get me wrong....but...
My mother had to do all the inside work. No man lifted a finger domestically in those days. But she also had to help save the hay, milk the cows, carry water, wash creamery cans and sluice out from the animals, save turf, and clean the farmyard as well as make the children's clothes, and clean house.
My father and brothers always seemed to be gone somewhere---seeing someone about gates, or about getting a plough fixed, or buying a horse. They would get to meet people, chat, call into the pub for a drink....while my sisters and I stayed at home starching their shirts and polishing rows of shoes for Sunday Mass....feeding calves, washing buckets for milk..
Men had the freedom to meet friends in the pub--a totally masculine zone in country villages. My mother was confined to the house with a large brood (Catholic Church strict rules, meant large families) and rarely got out, and no respectable woman went to a pub. That all changed with the "lounge bars" in the 70s
I know it was different in the cities, and for the middle class. But that was the life of the rural poor in De Valera's dream country...